Not Old…Just Older

So, today my baby turns seventeen.

And how does she respond to my birthday wishes this morning?

Are yo feeling old yet?

profile5 Why yes, I am. Thank you very much.

And it’s not just my babies looking back at me as grown near-adults either.  The aches and the pain, the inability to tolerate the cold, the new dependency on Tums, none of that helps either. (And let’s not even talk about the gray roots — yeah, thank goodness for Miss Clairol.)

On the way home from dropping her off at school, a Bon Jovi song came up on the iPod that sort of put it all in perspective though.  (One of my favorites by the way)

Well, I look in the mirror
I don’t hate what I see
There’s a few more lines staring back at me
Now the nights has grown a little colder
Hey man, I gotta run
Now you take care
If you see coach T. Tell him I’ve cut my hair
I’ve kept my faith
I still belive I’m just…

I like the bed I’m sleeping in
It’s just like me, it’s broken in
It’s not old – just older
Like a favorite pair of torn blue jeans
This skin I’m in it’s alright with me
It’s not old – just older

If you’ve never heard the song before, Check it out:

Comments (4)

Jill KemererDecember 18th, 2009 at 9:46 am

Happy Birthday to you-know-who!
And Miss Clairol and I had a date last night ;)

GutsyWriterDecember 18th, 2009 at 8:45 pm

Don’t worry. We get more and more confidence in ourselves. What a nice reward to getting older. My oldest son is 22.

CMPhillipsDecember 19th, 2009 at 5:35 pm

Thanks Jill. I passed on your birthday wishes. Can’t wait to see the new do.

CMPhillipsDecember 19th, 2009 at 5:36 pm

Thanks, gutsyWriter for the comment. I think we find that ability to be comfortable in our own skin as we mature as well.

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