A Sense of Community, the 2013 Reader Author Get Together

I spent the past weekend near Cincinnati for RAGT 2013. Over the years, I’ve come to know what to expect when I go to these types of events and I look forward to seeing familiar faces as well as meeting new ones.

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At this one, I took a couple of hours on one evening to spend some time with a dear friend I haven’t seen in quite some time.

Though her eyes, I got a chance to step back and look at the word I’ve become comfortable in with new eyes again. I was reminded that the women (and men) who were in attendance were more than just authors, readers, and industry professionals. We were truly a community, brought together by our common love of books.

At every meal, every event, in every corner of the lobby, you could hear people sharing their love of one author or another. They were talking about this latest release or that.

Those who hadn’t seen each other in months (or maybe a year) warmly embraced, strangers became quick friends. Yes, this was more than just a get together, or a conference, it was a community, sharing their passion for books and reading with each other. (I can’t think of another community where winning a basket full of books would elicit such squeals of glee.)

And this community is one I’m so proud to be a part of. Over the years, I’ve met the most wonderful, supportive women. I’ve made lifelong friends, and my life is oh-so-enhanced for having them in my life.

…and I’m already looking forward to next year.

 

The Conference Community: Tales from RWA

In the days and weeks before leaving for RWA (and since being home) I’ve made many a mention in social media and on the blog about seeing old friends and making new ones. Some may wonder why I consider this an important aspect of this conference.

Shouldn’t it really be about the sessions and the knowledge gained?

Of course. And the workshops were top-notch.

But the writer’s community is something that can not be dismissed. It’s more than just a social aspect.

Writing may be done in solitude, but thanks to the internet and organizations like RWA (Romance Writers of America), we are able to find support from and communicate with the only people who truly understand what it’s like to wrestle the people in our head down to the written page.

(Pictured above are two friends and fellow Crescent Moon Press authors, Christine Ashworth and Sasha Summers.)

I came home with a notebook busting full of notes on tips and trends and spent hours learning about marketing and publicity, but the stolen moments with friends old and new to compare notes, discuss the business and lean on the shoulders of those who understand where I am coming from can not be dismissed and, in fact, will be treasured.

MVRWA, Community, and Our Book Lover’s Event

Today I’m blogging at the MVRWA Group Blog about the value of a writing community and our big Book Lover’s Event.

You can read it over at the MVRWA site.

Community, Family, and Dessert in Little Italy

Yet another post about my adventures while in NYC for RWA National Conference in New York City.

When you tink about a big city like New York, the concept of community is probably not the first thing to come to mind. At least not before words like traffic, noise, bright lights, steel and stone, etc.

In actuality, I learned last week that like most large cities — or groups — it’s a huge conglomerate of communities with boarders and definitions. There’s the financial district, the fashion district, and the theater district (to name a few) These communities have the common ground of interests, but others are defined by culture.  Two of the most popular in Manhattan are Chinatown and Little Italy: both were on our site-seeing list.

It was late morning by the time we found ourselves walking the quaint little streets accented with flowers and bordered with green, white and red flags. The temperature was rising and the hours of exploring the little neighborhoods had made all of us a little weary…not to mention hungry! Someone had the brilliant idea to stop for a cannoli and a cup of coffee.

You would think that would be an easy find.

Had it been an hour later, we would have had our pick of places, but is was still a bit early for the numerous restaurants (best known for their lunch and dinner fare) to open.  Just when we though we’d have to endure another forty-five minutes of the peaking late June sun,we were reminded of old world hospitality.

As we stood in front of Umberto’s Clam Shack, staring longingly at the menu posted in the window, a kind young man opened the doors and his restaurant early to give three female tourists a seat and a treat that was surely sent from heaven.

I could spend paragraphs here trying to explain the rich, full taste and the smooth texture wrapped in the crisp, sweet shell…but it would never do that pastry justice. Besides, this post was about community.

In this day and age, it’s rare that someone will reach out to a stranger with an act of kindness. You might say that my story isn’t a description of that scenario; that the Clam Shack is a business, and he was caring for customers. However, we were shooed away from one outside seating area where we’d planned to sit, people watch, and wait for the cafe to open. So, I argue that there is a sense of old world value and antiquated kindness in reaching out and inviting people in, whether it’s a restaurant or a home.

And it was the best cannoli I have ever had or could ever hope to have again.