Choices, A Character Study

Monday’s post, which touched on a tough decision that has been rattling my cage lately, brought forth quite a bit of discussion. (Thanks for that!) And got me thinking about the choices our characters are faced with and the roads we have them take.

They tough, of course. It wouldn’t be a journey if everything was simple and fun. And sometimes the road the hero or heroine goes skipping down, leads  to a dark place.

When we, as writers, create situations where characters have to make choices, they are tough by design. It’s common knowledge that they shouldn’t be thinking I’ll take the road on the left because it’s newly paved. No their choices should be between which option sucks less. The road on the right goes through a jungle where I might be attacked by lions and tigers and bears, but if I take the road on the left, there are numerous sink holes, tar pits and quicksand patches…not to mention the boogie man. And no matter which road they take, you better fulfill your promise and have Mr. Hero or Miss Heroine meet up with at least half of the obstacles you foretold.

In other words, they need to mimic real life.

Sure, we are all faced with choices, where the correct answer is clear and simple. But the majority of them — the one’s that will make an imprint on our minds and stay with us for a long time — are the tough ones. The decisions that kept you up nights and nearly gave you a stomach ulcer. The ones you second guessed yourself on for weeks after the fact. These are the real choices, and the kinds of decisions that will just as strong of an impact on your reader.

Remember this next time you’re working on your outline (if your a plotter) or working your way through a scene (for us pantsters) the tougher the decision and the harder the choices, the higher the tension.

In other words, keep it real.

Finding Your Way

First, sorry for now ‘musing’ on Monday but I was busy accompanying my daughter to Bowling Green State University‘s Persident’s Day open house.

It was a very busy day, the kind where you take in so much information that by the end your head wants to explode. I know I felt that way, and I’m not even the one who has to make all those life altering decisions.

But watching her touring the various departments, asking questions and weighing life’s decisions made me reflect on some of the choices I’ve made, but even more so about how we are faced such big decisions at such an early age. Let’s face it, a lot of days I have trouble deciding what to fix for dinner, how did I ever come up with the proper career path?

If I’m to be completely honest, I took wrong turns. A lot of them. I tried pursuing a degree in Sociology, but in my heart of hearts knew that wasn’t what I really wanted with my life. Deciding to leave college for marraige and family was easy. That was what I truly wanted.  Even though I stopped writing for a number of years–rejections hurt too bad, who needs to put themselves through that–I’ve come back to it time and again, because that is where my heart is. And it was only in recent years that I’ve really allowed myself to let go of the ‘need to do’ and the ‘should really be doing’ and walk the road I’ve always wanted to.

I’m studying my craft, analyzing the business, and writing every day. I’ve joined social and professional organizations that teach and provide support. I’m walking a rough and bumpy road, with my true desire and will as my guide.

So to my children, or anyone else contemplating which is the right road to choose, I will give the same ol’ advice–even if it’s cliched. The right path is the one your heart leads you down.